A personal space to express myself in writing
Stop over analyzing and just do it. Do not get too comfortable in one spot, do not be decieved by the false security of “safety” to the point where you fail to grow. Do not play it safe, step out of the nirm and just do it.
It is so easy to forget how awesome you are in a world where everyone is “#livingmybestlive” on the internet. But I need you to tell yourself each day that you are not a mistake, and the fact that you still have air in your lungs means you have a significance.
DO NOT EVER DOUBT YOUR WORTH.
W: I listened to a snippet of a conversation on instagram last week and the lady was telling the guy “YOU DO NOT WANT TO DIE, YOU JUST WANT THE PAIN TO STOP”. A lot of people believe that ending it all is the only way, but it is not. The one thing I am absolutely certain about in life is that there is never just one way. Please do not hurt yourself in the bid to make the pain stop.
We all have moments of stagnancy in our lives, where we are neither moving forward nor moving backward, this can be “bloody” as my dad would say. Because it is very difficult to realize that you are stuck. Here is a little something I wrote. Have fun.
Confidence is something you create within yourself by believing in who you are – Unknown.
To have value and be wothy is step one but to actually believe and trust in what you have and who you are is the next step.
Depression is a real deal in our society today, but we tend to turn a blind eye and pretend it doesn’t exist. Just because you do not understand, does not mean it does not exist. Let us try to be more sensitive to those around us.
When was the last time you looked in the mirror and said “You are beautiful and smart and precious and wondeful. You My darling are amazing”
This is not an offensive poem, but a call to reality, those little comments and reactions to lightskinned people as though they are counterfeits.
DO NOT JUDGE ME BY STANDARDS YOU WISH NOT BE JUDGED BY
Have you ever wondered how easy children laugh, cry, love and forgive? they are so thrilled by the little things. They enjoy the bubbles and laugh at your laughter.
Why do we forget about these things as we grow older?
Enjoy the little things in life, because one day you will look back and realise they were the big things – Kurt Vonnegut
There is an assumed desperation when a single female of “marriageable” age is single, why do we pressure ourselves and others into getting married? We forget so easily that marriage is not a competiton, it is not about who went in first.