Hey guys, Long time no chatter, how have you been? I have been well. Today I have some goodies for you guys, we are going to be talking about SELF CONFIDENCE!!
We all know confidence is as vital as your kidney, so we all need to find ways to preserve and boost our confidence level in order for us to function efficiently in our lives.
THE QUICKEST WAY TO ACQUIRE SELF CONFIDENCE IS TO DO EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE SCARED OF – ANON
SO! Confidence, to help me put this into perspective I read THE POWER OF SELF CONFIDENCE BY BRAIN TRACY (which can I just say is a must-read for everyone). In this book, he was able to talk about self-confidence in a wholesome manner and well here are three tips for you on how to build your confidence level.
KNOW YOURSELF: You need to know and understand yourself, what drives you, what are your values, what principles do you live by? What are you good at? What do you enjoy doing? Get to know yourself, understand who you are, and what you have. This will allow you to have confidence in yourself. You can not be confident in something you do not know or trust, the same thing applies to you.
YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON ON EARTH WHO CAN USE YOUR ABILITY – ZIG ZIGLAR
MINDSET: As a man thinketh in his heart so he is. I can never overstate the power of our minds. In this book by Brian Tracy, he mentioned something called the power of concentration, which basically says the things you pay attention to or concentrate on are the things that will be dominant in your mind and your life. Control your thoughts, stop putting yourself down in your head, stop focusing on the negatives in your life or your shortcomings. I know it is difficult but with conscious practice, you will be able to take control of your thoughts. Have words of affirmation, when you catch yourself being negative or running yourself down, change the script \”I can\’t do it, I do not know anything, I am not good enough\” should become \”I can and I will, it might not work to plan but I know I am capable\”
ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU ARE BRAVER THAN YOU BELIEVE, STRONGER THAN YOU SEEM AND SMARTER THAN YOU THINK – CHRISTOPHER ROBIN
PERFORMANCE: The fastest way to build your confidence level is by working on your skills. When you perform well, you become more confident in your abilities. Having results and proof of your ability to complete tasks and handle situations allows you to place your confidence in something tangible. For this reason, we must strive to work on ourselves, invest in yourself. Attend seminars, get the necessary qualifications, do the things necessary to sharpen your skills, because when you know you can person, you will be able to walk with your head held high into any room.
CONFIDENCE IS SOMETHING WE BUILD OVERTIME.
DOUBT WILL ALWAYS COME, BUT YOU MUST REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO OVERCOME AND ACHIEVE GREAT THINGS.
STAY SHINING LOVELIES.
YOU ARE AMAZING. YOU ARE LOVED.